Issue #98 The Part of Leadership No One Trains You For this week's focus “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”— Albert Einstein There is a version of leadership that most of us are introduced to early in our careers. It is structured, visible, and largely skill-based. We are taught how to communicate clearly, how to make decisions, how to influence, present, and perform under pressure. Those things matter, and they are often what people mean when...
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Issue #97 Why Authority Can Feel Lonely (Even When You’re Surrounded by People) this week's focus “Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.” — Carl Jung In times of personal or professional growth, something can feel slightly out of reach. Not disconnected, exactly, but not entirely met either. There is a particular kind of loneliness that can emerge as a woman’s life begins to expand. It not...
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Issue #96 The Texture of a Feeling this week's focus “If you can name it, you can tame it.” — Dan Siegel Something I’ve been paying closer attention to lately is the texture of emotions. Not the big labels we tend to use: good, bad, stressed, fine, but the more subtle shades underneath them. Most of us move through these feelings quickly, often without stopping long enough to notice them. We call the whole experience “stress,” take a deep breath, and keep going. But our emotional lives are...
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Issue #95 Why Visibility Triggers the Nervous System this week's focus “Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.” — Brené Brown Ever notice how the moment you step into greater visibility (a leadership role, a promotion, a public voice, a bigger decision), your nervous system suddenly has opinions? Your mind may be saying, This is exactly what I want. But your body has other ideas. Your breath shortens, your shoulders tense, your thinking becomes sharper, faster, and more...
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Issue #94 Self-Trust Is Physiological Before It Is Intellectual this week's focus “Leadership is not about being in charge. It is about taking care of what is in your charge.” — Peter Drucker When you’re trying to make a big decision, where are you actually operating from — your head, or your body? Most high-achieving women try to think their way into clarity. We analyze, weigh pros and cons and gather more data. But that's only half the equation. Even after all that logic, something still...
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Issue #93 When Success Still Feels Tight this week's focus “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” — Anaïs Nin Let me ask you something uncomfortable. What if nothing is wrong…and that’s the problem? You’re successful, competent and trusted. You're the person people rely on when something matters. You’ve built a reputation on steadiness and delivery. You know how to execute and carry the weight of your decisions. And yet....
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Issue #92 When You’re Managing the Vision Instead of Leading Yourself this week's focus “Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.” — Peter Drucker Most accomplished women have a vision for their future. They can sense it, articulate parts of it, and can feel its pull in quiet moments. Maybe you’ve been there: as if you’re magnetically drawn to this feeling and no amount of ignoring it will make it go away. The issue isn’t a lack of imagination. The issue is what...
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Issue #91 When Success Requires a New Internal Identity this week's focus “We do not suffer because things are impermanent. We suffer because we believe they should not change.” — Anne Lamott You take time off, create more space, even clear your calendar. But that feeling—an odd mix of exhaustion and disengagement—won’t go away. Sometimes, rest stops working. Not because rest isn’t valuable, but because what’s tired isn’t your body; it’s the version of you that’s been carrying everything. You...
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Issue #89 When You Don’t Listen Inward, Leadership Leaks Outward this week's focus “Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.” — Parker J. Palmer In leadership, there’s a lot of talk of skill, confidence, and even burnout. But there’s a deeper layer that often goes unnoticed when one’s leadership flow falters. It’s about what happens when we stop listening inward — and how quickly that silence fills with noise. Most accomplished women...
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